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5 estate planning mistakes your family might be making

On Behalf of | Aug 25, 2026 | Estate Planning

Most families assume their estate plan is in good shape until something goes wrong. Even small gaps in planning can leave your loved ones dealing with legal complications. Knowing what to look out for can help your family avoid some of the most costly mistakes.

Not having a plan at all

The most significant mistake is failing to create an estate plan. Without a will or trust, New York intestacy laws will determine how assets are distributed. This means the state decides who receives your property. These may not align with your actual wishes. Additionally, the probate process can be more complicated and expensive for your family.

Forgetting to update documents

It is usually advised to review estate planning documents every three to five years. Life changes constantly. Major life events like divorce, remarriage or the birth of a child can make old beneficiary designations outdated. In New York, a divorce may revoke provisions in a will. However, it does not automatically change beneficiary designations on financial accounts.

Overlooking digital assets

Modern estates include more than physical property. Email accounts, social media profiles online banking and cryptocurrency all hold value. Without proper planning for these assets, families may struggle to access important information. You may even lose digital property entirely. In such cases, consider creating a comprehensive list of digital assets and how to access them.

Choosing the wrong executor or trustee

Selecting someone who lacks the ability or willingness to handle estate administration creates unnecessary stress. The person managing your estate needs organizational skills and the capacity to make difficult decisions. Consider whether your chosen representative can handle these responsibilities before finalizing your plan.

Ignoring tax implications

New York imposes an estate tax on estates exceeding $7.35 million. Without proper planning, families may face tax bills that reduce the inheritance left behind. Strategic gifting, trusts and other planning tools can help minimize tax burdens. This can preserve more wealth for beneficiaries.

Protecting your family by planning ahead

These mistakes are more common than most families realize. Fortunately, all of them are preventable. Estate planning goes beyond paperwork. It gives your family security and clarity during some of life’s most difficult moments. Addressing these gaps sooner makes a lasting difference for everyone you love.